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Want Enormous Success? Immediately Stop Doing What Everyone Else Is Doing
“Successful people do what unsuccessful people are unwilling to do.” -Darren Hardy, former editor of SUCCESS Magazine
The truth is, most people are making choices based on avoiding what they fear, not striving toward their goals.
This fear-driven behavior is exactly why most people are no on-track to succeed. When fear is calling the shots, you are living reactively, not intentionally. You spend the lion’s share of your energy focusing on problems, risks, and worst-case scenarios rather than how to win.
It’s human nature to choose the familiar, the convenient, the easy. I’m no exception. For most of my teenage years, I chose the mind-numbing bliss of pornography and compulsive video games in lieu of dealing with the pain and hurt from my family, bullies at school, and chronic loneliness.
But after 6 years of intense behavioral counseling, therapy, I’ve learned a few things.
- Most people are not on-track to escape their mediocre lives.
- Most people aren’t on-track to have great relationships.
- Most people can’t say they’re happy with their health.
- Most people don’t feel financially secure.
- Most people choose the easy path…